Why bother with an engagement session? Why do I include an engagement session in every wedding package?
My family and friends already know me as a guy that has a camera and takes pictures. That relationship has already been established since it’s common to see me with the camera to my eye and a smile on my face. Actually, the camera has almost become a part of the family as well. I’m a member of this exclusive club of friends and family, and I know each person’s personality and how to capture it in the right way. I know that uncle Bob will be leaning against the wall with a scotch in his hand or cousin Joe will be dancing crazily on the dance floor after a few soda pops. It allows me to capture those candid moments that really tell the story of the day. Conversely, members of my family learn to expect that I have a camera and know when to pose for a non-candid shot if they want one.
When I meet a bride and groom, I’m not yet a member of this exclusive club of friends. The engagement session gives us an opportunity to become familiar with each other, and by the time the wedding comes I hope to have new friends that expect me to have a camera to my eye. I hope to be enough a part of the group to understand how to tell the story. That one or two hours of time that we have together gives the bride and groom the opportunity to become familiar with me, how I work, who I am, and who they are. I learn what angles work best for them, and what kinds of things to look for on the wedding day. The bride and groom learn how I work. They learn that I will give them a suggestion as to where to walk or stand and then I won’t talk to them for a few moments. It’s in those moments that they learn to ignore the camera and concentrate on each other. Those are the moments when the candid works of art happen. Sometimes during an engagement session I’ll give a bit more direction to help understand body position and composition. The whole session is a mixture of candid and posed shots that blend well together as a story.
So, why bother with an engagement session? I photograph weddings because I love to tell people’s story, and the engagement session helps us to understand how to tell it.
Every blog post needs some photos, so here are a few brides and grooms that I will have the honor of photographing their weddings this year. I look forward to being a part of their first day as husband and wife and telling that part of their life story.


